WEST ORANGE- Being able to pivot and not just stand pat is certainly a key to both enjoying and finding success in our ever-evolving world, and that is part and parcel of the mosaic in life that we find ourselves in with the emergence of all the technological marvels and other world changes around us.
Still, when time permits, remembering one’s roots, reconnecting with people and reaffirming one’s early experiences while reflecting on one’s life lessons and core values can be both comforting and reassuring.
The honorees during the recent 52nd Mercier Sportsmen Awards Dinner combined to help conjure up some fine memories of the past half century for many of those in attendance for what was a memorable evening during the popular area dinner at the Highlawn which brings a wide variety of fathers and sons together for a special evening of fellowship, while also raising proceeds for local charities.
“I have certainly attended many sports banquets through the years, and I can say that this experience at the Mercier Sportsmen Dinner was different, and a very special evening,” said Bruce Beck, NBC-4 New York’s longtime sports anchor and the recipient of the Peter A. Carlesimo Sportsman of the Year award during the well-attended March 24 event. “Returning to my own roots and reconnecting with so many people, including some I may have not seen in many years, was extremely enjoyable to be a part of.
”And, to receive the Carlesimo Award which is named after such a tremendous person who comes from one of New Jersey’s legendary sports families, is such a tremendous honor!”
Beck, who resides with wife Janet in Westchester County, N.Y., hails from Livingston, while Msgr. Edward J. Larkin Award of Distinction honoree Marty Berman from Seton Hall Prep grew up in South Orange and Maplewood. The pair were reunited during the Mercier Sportsmen Dinner nearly a half century since both worked at Suburban Cable, TV-3, back in the late 1970s, and for the statewide high school sports magazine, ‘Sportsfolio.’
“I hadn’t seen Marty for 45 years so to have the chance to share a special evening with him at the Merciers dinner was so special,” added Beck. “I was just thrilled to be back home among old friends.”
For Berman, who has won 566 games in 39 seasons as the head soccer coach at Seton Hall Prep, it was indeed an evening which will now reside comfortably in the memory banks.
“It was an unbelievable night and one I’ll never forget and always cherish,” he said. “I’ll definitely be at a Mercier dinner again!”
The tradition of the Mercier Sportsmen Father-Son Beefsteak was further epitomized by the fact that both honorees were introduced by their sons with Jon and Michael Beck along with Matty Berman all talking about their dads before each honoree took the microphone from their boys.
Berman began by talking about his roots as his family moved from the Weequahic section of Newark to Maplewood and South Orange. The 2023 U.S. Soccer Coach of the Year now resides in West Orange with his wife Lori, who is also a longtime soccer coach. Their sons Matty and Luke were among those at dad’s table for the Mercier Sportsmen event along with other family members including Dave Snyder, who is Lori’s brother, and Marty’s brother-in-law, and who along with Matty are members of the SHP soccer coaching staff.
Beck spoke about the strong influence of his parents, mom Doris, who was once the mayor of Livingston and the first female mayor in Essex County when she served in that post in Livingston, and dad Felix, a successful businessman who was a pioneer in developing the idea for a variable rate mortgage.
Beck, who has carved his own unique niche in the very competitive field of sportscasting, emphasized overcoming the power of rejection in life, and how he always encourages young people not to be afraid to make mistakes or to fail at something.
He referred to legendary UCLA basketball coach John Wooden’s time-honored adage of looking to ‘Make each day your masterpiece,’ meaning to do whatever you are doing today to the best of your ability.
A forward-looking message was emphasized by both honorees at the 52nd Mercier Sportsmen Dinner with the accompanying theme of appreciating family and friends and where one comes from.
NOTES- Tim Reilly did another superb job as master of ceremonies for the Mercier Sportsmen Dinner, while event committee chair Bill Evans filled in nicely with the invocation in place of longtime dinner attendee Father Francis Burla of Immaculate Conception Church was unable to attend this year’s event…Longtime Metropolitan Area colleges (including Rutgers, Seton Hall and Columbia) athletic director Joe Quinlan is another valuable member of the committee along with others including local attorney Rich McMahon, John Jerbasi and Tim Reilly, Jr…Among the representatives of local sports families attending the dinner were Yogi’s son, Larry Berra, Jr., and Fred Hill, Jr., the former Rutgers basketball coach and son of the late, great Rutgers and Montclair State baseball coach Fred Hill, Sr.
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History Of Carlesimo Sportsman of the Year & Msgr. Larkin Awards:
2025: Bruce Beck, NBC-4 NY sports anchor
Larkin Award: Marty Berman
2024: Jim Spanarkel, Duke star & college basketball TV analyst
Larkin Award: Ron Anello
2023: John Sciambi, ESPN play by play man
Larkin Award: Mark Corino
2022: Lenny Coleman- MLB’s National League President
Larkin Award: Steve Tober
2019: Matt Loughlin- NJ Devils play by play voice
Larkin Award: Rich Hansen
2018: Tom Verducci- Sports Illustrated & FOX Baseball
Larkin Award: Dave Giarrusso
2017: Zack DeOssie- NY Giants long snapper
Larkin Award: Tom Fleming
2015: John Farrell- manager, Boston Red Sox
Larkin Award: Ted Fiore
2014: Eric LeGrand- inspirational Rutgers lineman- founder LeGrand Foundation
Larkin Award: Peter von Hoffmann
2013: Joe Quinlan- St. Peter’s University director of athletics
Larkin Award: Niall Handley
2012: Harry Carson- NY Giants Hall of Fame linebacker
Larkin Award: Rich SanFillipo
2011: Jerry Walker- Seton Hall Univ. Hall of Fame, St. Anthony great
Larkin Award: Michael Sammon
2010: Graig Nettles- NY Yankees third baseman
Larkin Award: Rick Giancola
2009: Bart Oates- NY Giants Pro Bowl center
Larkin Award: Ed Lebida
2008: Jerry Izenberg- Star-Ledger columnist
Larkin Award: Mike Sheppard, Jr.
2007: Anthony Fasano- Notre Dame and NFL tight end
Larkin Award: Major Jennings
2006: Fred Dwyer- Manhattan College track coach
Larkin Award: Pat Dyer
2005: Fred Hill- baseball coach Rutgers
Larkin Award: Fr. Edwin Leahy, OSB
2004: Jack Powers- executive director of NIT
Larkin Award: Chris Johnson
2003: Carl Banks- NY Giants linebacker
Larkin Award: Lou Racioppe
2001: Michael Strahan- NY Giants defensive lineman
2000: Rick Cerone- NY Yankees catcher
Larkin Award: Hugh Moriarty
1999: Terry Shea- Rutgers football coach
Larkin Award: John Finnegan
1998: Larry Doby- Cleveland Indians baseball Hall of Famer
Larkin Award: Bob Farrell
1997: Willis Reed- NY Knicks and VP NJ Nets
1996: John MacLean- NJ Devils Stanley Cup champion player
Larkin Award- Ollie Gelston
1995: Phil Rizzuto- NY Yankees Hall of Famer
1994: Kelly Tripucka- NBA Detroit Pistons, Notre Dame Bloomfield HS
1993: Ottis Anderson- NY Giants running back, Super Bowl MVP
1992: Bob Hurley- St. Anthony Hall of Fame coach
1991: George Young- NY Giants general manager
1990: P.J. Carlesimo- Seton Hall University and NBA coach
1989: Bruce Parker- Montclair High School Hall of Fame coach
1988: Russ Helwig- Essex Fells CC golf pro & NJ state champ
1987: Frank ‘Finn’ Tracey- Seton Hall Prep basketball coach
1986: Frank Tripucka- Denver Broncos, Notre Dame & Bloomfield QB
1985: Bill Raftery- Seton Hall University basketball coach, CBS analyst
1984: John McMullen- owner NJ Devils
1983: Aubrey Lewis- Notre Dame & Montclair football & track great
1982: Msgr. Michael E. Kelly- Seton Hall Prep athletic director
1981: William Horey- Glen Ridge football coach
1980: Gil Gibbs- Montclair High lacrosse and basketball coach
1979: Joe Garvey- Essex Cath. & West Essex basketball coach, IC sports
1978: Butch Fortunato- Montclair High football coach and AD
1977: Howard Finney- Montclair Cobras youth football
1976: Bill Dioguardi- Montclair State athletic director
1975: George Cella- Bloomfield High basketball coach
1974: Peter Carlesimo- NIT chief executive, Fordham AD
1973: Rev. Francis Burla- Immaculate Conception athletic moderator
1972: Angelo Bertelli- Notre Dame Heisman Trophy winner
1971: Yogi Berra- NY Yankees Hall of Fame catcher
1970: Clary Anderson- Montclair High football and baseball coach